Got to BELIEVE in Magic

As a typical human being when we encounter DESPICABLE pain, we normally responded to fly away with it | detached ourselves to the society hoping to ease the suffering.

But in the first place, why do we allow ourselves to part in this latitude anyway? Why can't we outline our so called LIFE from the beginning so as NOT to encounter such anguish and grief in the end? Why do we subject ourselves to this SELF-INFLICTED pain? Why do we take into account the RISK that we knew all along as part of the whole?

Simply because we wanted to be LOVED, we wanted to feel that we BELONG, and clearly we just wanted to be HAPPY --- sincerely just like that.

But is it WORTH it? I guess no one really knows until one goes through with it... Personally, i have to say YES --- truly POSITIVE that these so called misery and heartaches will mold us to be a BETTER person, it makes us STRONGER, and tender us to be well rounded | WISER living soul individuals.

Despite the pulsating ache i honestly understand we should not stop BELIEVING that there is still HOPE | that MAGIC will one day come around and will make us SMILE again, of course no guarantee how long these happiness will last but for sure if you just appreciate that there is that fair chance that it will stay there for good... even FOREVER.

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

Maya Angelou

It's like your own shadow, most of the time you really do not notice not until later when the sun comes down behind you, that shadow is a constant reminder that it really has not left you --- that feelings that you've shown will never be forgotten.

I am your shadow, and I will be your constant reminder that once in your life you've known someone who made you feel complete and whole as a person.
Thank you for the confusion and unintended adversity... without these i would not have found the TRUTH, WISDOM that goes with it, and most importantly MYSELF.

My Apology

"I've learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances."

Martha Washington

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Life teaches you lessons to learn, circumstances are there to keep you on your toes --- It allows you to grow and be a better person.

Yes, we can allow ourselves to wallow in misery but what actually matters most is the attitude and character to fight back and get up, to pick ourselves up, and to face life's challenges with determination and valor.

{I have to apologise to the people i've cause trouble with ...
i didn't meant to be so irrational --- hopefully you can find room for forgiveness in your heart ... you know who you are}

The Notebook

Movie night in my end --- I was surprise with this one, did not expect it to be this good... and i don't know if it is the surging chemical substance called estrogen that's causing to flood my eyes but it surely made me cry my heart out... Why didn't i bother to watch this movie before {call me late bloomer again}. --- A truly remarkable love story ♥

Storyline

The movie focuses on an old man reading a story to an old woman in a nursing home. The story he reads follows two young lovers named Allie Hamilton and Noah Calhoun, who meet one evening at a carnival. But they are separated by Allie's parents who dissaprove of Noah's unwealthy family, and move Allie away. After waiting for Noah to write her for several years, Allie meets and gets engaged to a handsome young soldier named Lon. Allie, then, with her love for Noah still alive, stops by Noah's 200-year-old home that he restored for her, "to see if he's okay". It is evident that they still have feelings for each other, and Allie has to choose between her fiancé and her first love.

The Trailer

Still addicted and discovering the love of Bokeh.

Something BorroWed

... "It's a thin line between love and friendship."

Just watched this movie today and find the story compelling with passion yet loaded with so much heartaches and drowning emotions...

like in the FB status: IT'S COMPLICATED.
{i appreciate the movie though}

Storyline
"Rachel is a lawyer. When she was in law school she fell for another student Dex who comes from an affluent family. But she's too shy to say anything. When Dex meets her best friend Darcy who treats her like dirt sometimes, who was visiting her, she makes a move on him and gets him. Eventually they get engaged and Darcy asks Rachel to be her Maid of Honor. But Rachel stills has feelings for Dex and still can't say anything. But when Darcy throws her a birthday party and Dex is there. When she and gets Dex are alone, she blurts out that she had a thing for him in college which surprised him. And after drinking a little they spend the night together. They try to forget the whole thing but can't but agree that it means nothing. But Ethan, Rachel close friend tells her that she'll spend her entire life regretting that if she does nothing." 

At this stage of life you currently have, what are you willing to risk in the name of L♥VE?


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Photo above is my first attempt with DIY bokeh in the shape of heart, and with my one candle glowing in the kitchen, *sorry for the lame photo*.