The Hot Seat

"To lose patience is to lose the battle."

Mahatma Gandhi

How do you protect your family if they have been dishonest with you from the beginning? How do you approach a sensitive issue without condemning them for the wrong doings they have done? When do you say enough, and for you to back off and let them decide whatever they make out of their lives, which you are aware for sure that that decision will lead them to unhappiness in the end? At young adult age, aren't they mature enough to be responsible of their own act? When do you stop giving the advocacy if you've been constantly telling them every single moment what's morally and spiritually right? How do you learn to trust them again if the trust have been broken several times?

I want to hang on and give them the benefit of the doubt but the certainty of the situation outweighs the fight you've been battling for... I am seriously bitter right now, *nose fuming*.